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Considering Limits

Considering Limits

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Val Weston

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One of the things we have to recognize in all aspects of our lives is our limits. That includes travel limits, even when you’re a seasoned traveler. It’s crucial to take note of that point when something usually enjoyable tips over into not-so-fun. That’s where I find myself after relocating my Georgia HQ, leaving for a trying six-week, 10,000-mile roadtrip, followed quickly by a long weekend excursion to Cumberland Island.

Don’t get me wrong, I thrive on travel. It puts the wind in my sails. But moving and getting re-established in a new home on top of these wonderful adventures has put me over the edge. It has spread me too thin.

Recognizing that limit, I made the very tough choice to postpone a much needed dose of the Great Smoky Mountains so I can get my feet under me. With Fred and George off in Florida, I had the notion to sneak away for a solo adventure. But the reality is that as much as the Smokies fill my soul, my more pressing need is to regroup at HQ and catch my breath.

So I leave you with this as the weekend approaches: Sometimes to need to give yourself space to unfurl.

For fast-acting relief try slowing down.

Lily Tomlin

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2 responses to “Considering Limits”

  1. Leslie E Avatar
    Leslie E

    I thought of you and your Smokies trip all week. Congrats on that tough decision. Worry about an unsettled HQs, would steal the happiness from that solo adventure. A few trips out of town and family visits close together, has me struggling to hold back from entering meltdown mode myself. My 9 year old niece arrives tomorrow for a stretch and there are so many things I wanted to get done before she arrived and so many things I want to do when she is here. Will I have the time and the energy?? I am worried, in advance. As I read about your decision, the light went on. I’m going to rob myself of the happiness and joy that my niece’s visit will bring. So, I’ll will steal a page from your book. You regroup at the HQ and I’ll regroup here. I’m sure I can remove some stress by changing the list from what “I want to do” to what “I need to do” and will remind myself that worrying about the things I cannot change will only steal the energy I need to enjoy my niece and certainly won’t change the outcome. Thanks for the light bulb!

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    1. valinreallife@gmail.com Avatar
      va***********@***il.com

      Wishing you a fabulous time with your niece. Sorry the boys aren’t in town to play too.

      The balance between the need and want is so delicate. We can also easily slip into the dark side of only doing the things we need to do and not get enough of the “wants” that bring the joy to life. Ah, the dance of life! 🙂

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