Tag: extended travel

  • Itching for a Big Adventure

    Itching for a Big Adventure

    My travel life has changed dramatically in the last couple of years. Not better or worse; just different. My time is broken into smaller blocks so I’ve been piecing together shorter adventures rather than spending weeks on the road like in the past. On the one hand that’s simply the nature of my life at the moment. On the other, do I accept that fate? Or do I go full Val on this and orchestrate something within this context? A trip that serves all of the facets of my life at the moment instead of being constrained by them.

    Make no mistake, I love all of my adventures, short or long. All of them have been fulfilling and worthwhile. Lately, though, they’ve been exclusively short. So I’m itching for a big adventure. One with an open-ended finale. One that takes weeks or months. Those trips have a different rhythm and context. They are their own distinct, wonderful beasts. And the construct on my life as it is now looks nothing like the last time I took and extended trip so I don’t have an established game plan like I used to. I have to build the framework for this from scratch.

    This isn’t an easy task. But is it possible? Yes. It will take a lot of effort though. And that’s what gets us, isn’t it? When we can’t reconcile the effort involved with the return on investment, so it doesn’t happen. But for me, this is what makes life worth living. Exploring. So going to great lengths to make this a reality is well worth the effort.

    dog in sidecar - val in real life
    The adventure dog presents extended travel challenges but this is what Betty was made for.

    What might it look like this time around?

    In the infant stages of considering this, it will almost certainly involve Big Betty Blue. First because I by far prefer motorcycle travel. Second because managing the adventure dog is one of the biggest hurdles to being gone for an extended time. That’s a large part of the reason for buying Betty in the first place. Dog sitters add a lot to the cost of travel as well as time constraints based upon dog-sitter availability. If he’s with me, I can be more flexible.

    But I’m not even remotely dialed in on traveling with him in the rig yet. There’s a big learning curve to keep everyone happy and safe. Going that route will mean starting with micro adventures to refine the process.

    If I toss Betty in the toy hauler, then it’s an RV trip with mini motorcycling side trips, a process I also have yet to refine. That’s a very different adventure with both upsides and downsides over pure moto travel.

    Either way this is slow, immersive travel. Both vehicle scenarios involve rigs that don’t get anywhere quickly. But that’s ok. Slow travel is what I like most and has been a footnote in my adventures the last few years.

    grey wolf rig - val in real life
    Is putting Betty in the big rig the answer to my wanderlust?

    Priorities

    Thank you for joining me for this little “thinking out loud” exercise. I get a lot of questions about how to pull these things off. The lesson for the uninitiated is that big adventures don’t just fall into place. They require orchestration, especially when juggling family and pets. In my case that includes family on opposite sides of the country! As I ponder this year’s calendar, I’m not even remotely certain if I can make this happen in 2018 but I want to badly so I’m working to make it happen.

    In the end, it’s a matter of priorities. My top priority is exploring.

    Exactly how and when I will scratch this itch remains to be seen. Stay tuned.

  • For the Love of Extended Travel…

    For the Love of Extended Travel…

    For some, extended travel seems wearisome. Spending weeks (or months, or years) on the road, not seeing your home, managing your life from a distance, finding laundromats, having to find a new place to sleep or set up camp every few days, all of the uncertainties—there are definitely some challenges.

    craters of the moon - val in real life
    Fred and George getting blown away at Craters of the Moon on one of our mondo road trips.

    For me though, short-term yo-yo travel is harder: trying to pinwheel out from my home base to attend events and explore, packing and unpacking frenetically, losing time going back-and-forth. It’s a perverse commute. Sometimes I don’t know if I’m coming or going.

    Last fall I had five separate trips in six weeks. It was exhausting. I would have saved myself a lot of time and energy if I’d combined some of them by not trying to come back to my HQ for only a day or two before leaving again. I also would have more content to share with you if I had slowed down and shared the journey instead of racing between places because my timeline was so tight. And it forced me to press through hard weather when giving myself more room to avoid energy-draining conditions would have been safer for me.

    Thinking back to that batch of trips got me musing about the difference between the weeks-long expeditions I’ve done in the past and short weekends away. There are people who love to jet off for weekends frequently. It refreshes them from their daily routine, which may be difficult to leave for longer stretches. I admire that they’ve found a way to manage travel with limited time available.

    And I’ve realized that I don’t enjoy frequent micro-adventures. It feels like a lot of energy for not enough return. I love the rhythm of longer trips.

    val in real life
    Giving myself more travel flexibility means I can avoid situation like this when I spent hours warming up and waiting out a storm at a Waffle House.
    • It helps me avoid feeling like my adventure is over when it’s just getting started.
    • There’s less pressure to do everything. I accept that I’ll need laundry days and time to catch up on personal items, work, etc. Just like at home. And that a do-everything pace isn’t necessary or even sustainable for longer trips.
    • There’s a much greater element of self-reliance to longer journeys. There’s less “I’ll fix it when I get home.” I have to address issues in the moment, with my own wits. It’s empowering.
    • Living out of a car or off of a motorcycle for extended times helps me realize what I need in my life. And what I don’t.
    • It requires more resilience and flexibility. And returns more immersion and connection with places and people.
    • It changes my mindset about vulnerability. One, by embracing help from strangers. Two, by recognizing I am no more or less safe as I travel than I am at home. For many people, distance from home creates anxiety. Realizing you can handle situations while traveling almost as easily as you can at home is often a revelation.

    So there you have it. That’s why I love long-term travel. And why I’ll be heading straight from my annual photography workshop in the Smokies to Horizons Unlimited in Virginia. Instead of being a yo-yo on an unraveling string, I’ll be able to embrace rich, thoughtful travel.

    The wonderful thing about taking on anything new in our lives is the sense of release and freedom when you realize your comfort zone has been suffocating you. Extended travel is one of those wonderful things that will make you question what you were so frightened about. And there’s no putting yourself back into the box once you’ve busted out of it. Life becomes bigger. Possibilities emerge that you never dreamed of.

    What do you think? Do you prefer extended travel? If you’ve never tried it, would you if you were able?

    Cheers, friends. Adventure on!

    val in real life
    Longer travel allows me to stop and smell the flowers. 🙂